Being An Honorable Person | Esther 2:19-15
Honor is a concept that echoes through the centuries but can often seem lost in the noise of modern life. What does it mean to be an honorable person? How do we practice honor in our daily decisions, our relationships, and our faith? Inspired by Charlie Wallace’s recent sermon, which reflects on Esther 2:19–3:15 and the life of her uncle Mordecai, this post breaks down three core attributes of honor and practical ways you can cultivate them in your own life.
What Is Honor and Why Does It Matter?
The idea of honor often surfaces when we talk about historical figures, heroic acts, or stories of self-sacrifice. But as Charlie Wallace points out, honor isn't just for the history books; it's relevant in our everyday struggles and triumphs. Honor means holding values, morals, and commitments with unwavering conviction. It means being faithful, loyal when it’s right, and self-sacrificial—just as Jesus demonstrated through his life and death.
In the book of Esther, Mordecai stands as a powerful model for honor. Let’s dig into how his actions teach us timeless lessons for living a life that pleases God and draws respect from others.
1. Honorable People Are Faithful
Mordecai’s faithfulness is evident in how he conducts himself in challenging circumstances. Though he could have chosen personal gain or self-preservation, he stayed committed to his responsibilities and the people in his life.
Be Faithful When No One Is Watching
Esther had not revealed her Jewish heritage, just as Mordecai had instructed her. Meanwhile, Mordecai was “sitting at the king’s gate”—not idly but because he held a position of responsibility and influence. When he overhears a plot to assassinate King Ahasuerus, Mordecai acts decisively by informing Esther, who then tells the king.
Mordecai’s fidelity to his role, even when no one is watching or acknowledging it, is a cornerstone of honor. As Wallace shared, “God works through this—when He knows He can trust us because we’ve been faithful in the little things, He then gives us more responsibility.” Faithfulness is forged in quiet moments, not just grand gestures.
Be Loyal to Authority—When It’s Right
Loyalty is another aspect of honor, but it’s not blind allegiance. Mordecai worked honestly for the king, despite disagreeing with Xerxes’ ways. He didn’t betray or undermine his authority unless obedience would have meant forsaking God’s law.
Wallace recalls a tough lesson from his own ministry: Remaining loyal to leadership, even when pressured to criticize or undermine, upholds God’s order. Romans 13 reminds us, “There is no authority except from God.” Loyalty matters—unless it conflicts with obedience to God.
Speak the Truth, Even When It’s Risky
Mordecai didn’t sweep the conspiracy against the king under the rug. Honorable people speak truth, even when it may cost them. This Christian virtue is “putting away falsehood” (Ephesians 4:25), choosing honesty and integrity as members of God’s family.
Truth-telling binds us together. Even when risks are high, we must choose to stand on what’s right and speak up when called.
2. Honorable People Are Courageous
The next chapter of Mordecai’s story presents a test of courage. The king promotes Haman to prime minister and commands all servants to bow before him—but Mordecai refuses.
Why? Because to do so would be to worship Haman as a god, directly violating his faith in the one true God.
Courage in the Face of Evil
Mordecai’s civil disobedience wasn’t casual—it put his life and the lives of his people at risk. Haman’s rage led to a decree to destroy all the Jews in the kingdom. Yet, Mordecai stood firm, expressing his faith and courage even when the stakes were unimaginably high.
Wallace shared a modern parallel: Courageous firefighter Jonathan Head, who risked his life to save a child in a burning building. Honor, in both ancient and modern stories, is often about doing the right thing when everyone else might run away.
3. Honorable People Are Aware
Honorable people pay attention. Mordecai’s awareness of his surroundings led to the saving of a life, and later his discernment helps him prepare for coming threats against his people.
Discernment Is Key
As the plot against the Jews unfolds, Haman manipulates the king, casting lots to determine the day of genocide and even offering a fortune for its completion. Mordecai and Esther’s awareness and readiness in the face of evil become pivotal for their survival and victory.
Wallace emphasized, “We have to be watchful of the world… Part of being God’s people means the world will hate you on some level.” Christians are called to be discerning—aware of cultural, spiritual, and personal dangers. Don’t live in fear, but don't ignore the reality of spiritual conflict and injustice.
How Can You Maintain Honor in a Hostile World?
Living honorably isn’t just about what happens when life is easy. It’s tested when circumstances challenge our values, beliefs, and resilience.
1. Keep Your Conduct Honorable (Even When Under Attack)
When others make your life difficult, act with integrity. As 1 Peter 2:12 instructs, “Keep your conduct among the Gentiles honorable…that they may see your good deeds and glorify God.” Let your reputation be built on honor, not retaliation.
2. Love and Pray for Your Enemies
One of the most radical commands of Jesus: “Love your enemies and pray for those who persecute you” (Matthew 5:44). The world knows how to hate; Christians are called to love—genuinely and sacrificially, even when it hurts.
3. Rejoice In Trials
Honor often emerges in suffering. James says, “Count it all joy…when you meet trials of various kinds, for you know that the testing of your faith produces steadfastness.” Trials shape, mature, and perfect us. Don’t resent them; look for what God may be building in you.
4. Trust in God’s Sovereignty
When you’re discouraged or afraid, remember that God is in control. “In the world you will have tribulation. But take heart; I have overcome the world” (John 16:33). Rest in the assurance that God is aware, active, and working out His plan for good—even in the darkest moments.
Conclusion: Becoming an Honorable Person Today
Honor isn’t reserved for legends or mountaintop heroes; it’s lived out in the lives of ordinary people—like Mordecai, Esther, and perhaps, yourself. Whether you’re facing big decisions, workplace drama, or personal challenges, these principles apply:
Be faithful and trustworthy, especially in the small things.
Stand with courage on your convictions, even when it’s costly.
Stay aware of the world’s dangers and needs.
Maintain honorable conduct, love your enemies, endure trials with joy, and trust God’s bigger picture.
Ask yourself: Am I an honorable person? Am I a faithful friend? Courageous in adversity? Spiritually aware?
If you want to grow in honor, pray—invite God to refine your heart, actions, and perspectives. As Charlie Wallace wrapped up, “As we leave here today…ask the Lord: Lord, help me continue becoming an honorable person.” Be thankful for the mentors and fellow believers—the Esthers and Mordecais—God has placed in your life.
Live honorably, and let your faith, love, and integrity shine in a world that desperately needs the example.
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